when social networks become a social letdown
Recently, I felt the need to cancel my facebook.... cancel? why? are you mad? Most of those types of scenarios came into my mind. As I sat with my wife, thinking about life and enjoying just being still, I got up to go and check my facebook without ever really thinking. My wife asked what I was doing. "Checking facebook...again." Really? after checking it 2 other times in the span of an hour. What have I become? I am a social guy, I love to have conversations with people and keep up with them. But in my endeavor to keep up with them, I never really got to know them. I knew them from facebook. I am not saying that I didn't know people, sure, most of them I had worked with, or knew from high school or what have you, but what kind of relationship did I have with them? Most of them have never seen the inside of my house, let alone know where I live. Most of them really don't know what is going on week to week in my life, let alone really care. So why spend so much time ...